Be A Forever Student

Student.

It’s a word I always want to define me.

I have a couple degrees and a couple certifications under my belt but even if one day I get a doctorate’s degree-I know that one life is not enough to learn everything there is to learn. I used to think that as an adult I would finally have everything figured out. I would no longer question everything.

With time I’ve learned that I will never stop learning. I never want to lose my curiosity for other people’s perspectives, for new landscapes, for endless facts about this crazy world.

I think it’s important to keep that student point of view so that you are open to the world and all it can teach you. Education is evolving and once you learn one discipline, it’s not over. You need to keep up with the constant new techniques and information that emerge from your career.

Your eyes need to keep the wonder they had when you were a baby; curious of what everything is. Be humble like a student might be on their first day of quantum physics class.

Life is a professor that has so much to teach you, I promise.

Learning A New Language Equals A New Life

Languages amaze me.

I’m the person who, while on a busy street, will be listening to conversations in languages I don’t understand. Especially when travelling or living in the NY tristate area(where there’s such big diversity), knowing more than one language is essential to communicating with a wider range of people.

When there is a language barrier in either of the people, the conversation is usually a little bit fumbly, a little bit guarded, and much more focused on simply understanding instead of having good conversation.

I remember being in a taxi cab from 1945 in Cuba and casually asking the driver how his day was. After a few minutes we realized that he is from Guyana which is the neighboring country to where I was born. Apart from that, he spoke portuguese! I was so excited when he said that so that we could stop struggling through an English conversation. I speak basic portuguese but I love practicing it with strangers. We got along so well that he charged us a lower fare for bringing us to the airport. Had I not known Portuguese, the conversation would not have been the same.

Another instance was when I was working at a daycare in the 3-4 year old room. There was a very small, very shy indian boy. While everyone was playing in their different stations, I went up to him and started helping him put together a puzzle. When I was putting in the red puzzle piece, he said, “Rojo”. I cannot tell you how happy that made me. I immediately asked him how to say the other colors, which he said perfectly, and asked him how he knew spanish. He said him and his sister have a private spanish tutor. Obviously he became one of my favorite students in class.

Life and how you interact with it really opens up when you learn that your native language is not the one that everybody necessarily speaks. It is hard to stay focused on learning a language, especially when virtually nobody around you speaks it…but the benefits are endless.

I think the key to really learning is repetition and practice. You need to keep seeing a word out in the world in different contexts before you can remember it enough to use it yourself. Ways I am doing that with Portuguese and French are listening to music, watching movies,using a textbook from college and using DuoLingo.

Are you learning English? Email me for remote private lessons or via facetime/skype sessions! I teach my students how to succeed; not stuck behind a textbook but during real conversations, important interviews, at the workplace, when meeting a new partner’s family or when moving to an English speaking country.

I love my students and teach around the world thanks to the magic that is working remotely. Looking forward to meeting you!